
The Big City, The Big Apple, Gotham, The city that never sleeps, the center of the universe. There are a million other ways to describe New York but some nicknames are more well known than others. As the most populous city in the most populous metropolitan area in the United States, New York is our cultural capital. Like most of our states, our country's most famous city isn't our capital, its definitely New York. In many ways, New York City is the most famous and well known of the world's cities. But is this reputation just the result of Americans feeling good about themselves and thinking we're the only game in town? Or does New York deserve all the accolades it receives. To me, it does and it's definitely deserving of its place in the 1000 Places to See Before You Die.
I first saw New York right before I became a teenager. Bill Clinton was in office, the Oval Office scandal was raging and we had just bombed the Sudan. Remember all that? It seems like a life time ago. But that summer, those were the biggest headlines in the news. New York was hot that summer, really hot. I'm used to heat having grown up with Southern California summers but this was a whole different kind of heat. Sticky, humid, disgusting heat. But, despite the physical discomfort, the big city captured my attention like it has with so many millions of people throughout its existence. It may have started as a small village on Manhattan island, but today's New York City is one of the largest and most beautiful cities around.
The next time I ended up in New York I was an adult. This was during a time where I came back to the city at least once every quarter. I quickly felt comfortable amongst the millions. New York is fast, lively, energetic and if you aren't careful, can run past you leaving you feeling lost. However, if you hunker down and go with the flow, its a completely welcoming city. New Yorkers get a reputation for having and attitude but I've always found them to be pleasant. I know I'm generalizing just as bad as the nay-sayers, but New Yorkers just live at a different pace than the rest of us. Like America as a whole, New York is a place people migrate to. Taking on the life and attitude of a New Yorker isn't something you're born with. The city is open and ripe for the taking for those who put in the effort. The lifestyle is open to anyone willing to go after it.
Even though I've been to New York many times, I still feel like a newbie. There is still so much left to explore. On one trip, I was lucky enough to have Sarah join me. We piggy-backed a vacation onto a work trip I had and spent a little bit of time exploring. We saw the Empire State building, took a red bus tour (cliche but totally awesome), and ate at several restaurants. It was a super fast trip and it left us wanting more. We haven't been back together since then but Sarah has been able to go a few times lately. I've always found that being able to visit different cities is great, but being able to visit and work in different cities is awesome. We're both happy to get the chance to do both.
So what about this reputation? The center of the universe business. Well, even though I'm a die-hard fan of where I'm from, I still have to admit that yes, New York really is the center of the universe. It wasn't always this way and it may not be that way in the distant future. But right now, it lives up to all its hype. I've been to many different cities around the world so far and none have the energy and excitement of New York. Rome may be older, London more proper, Tokyo more advanced, but still none can compare to the aura of New York. What evidence do I have? Well, its hard to describe in words. You really just need to go. Perhaps the only proof I have is that everyone I know who has spent any sort of time in New York speaks of it in the same tones and reverence I do. Its not something you can put a finger on, but everyone knows what its all about.